Reading for Me

The Books I Have Read…..Just for Me

#22: A Separate Peace (John Knowles)

This week, I returned to a classic novel that I first read the summer after my freshman year of college. One of my roommates had a copy of the novel nestled on a shelf above our shared desk and he regularly commented how this was one of his favorite books of all time. Since I hadn’t read the book in high school, summer break sounded like the perfect time to read about the fictional school of Devon and the events that occurred in the summer of 1942.

A Separate Peace focuses on the friendship between Phineas and Gene as they deal with the horrors of war and their imminent call to serve in the American military. Gene is a scholar; Phineas is the epitome of an athlete. The two should not have the makings of such a strong friendship, but that is exactly what happens. Phineas finds his identity firmly planted in his success in his various athletic pursuits. Gene, on the other hand, seems to only have an identity as the friend of Phineas. When tragedy strikes, the boys each find themselves in an unexpected search for self-identity.

Themes of fear, athletic competition, self-identity and self-worth run throughout the pages of the novel. These themes are heightened by the looming background of the Great War in the lives of these impressionable adolescents. Honestly, I had forgotten how much of the novel involved athletic pursuits and dreams of success above all else.

I expected a quick read since this is a relatively short novel, coming in at just under 200 pages. Instead, I found myself reaching for my pen regularly to underline passages that spoke to me and filling the margins with questions to consider as I continue reflecting on Knowles’ story. I enjoyed a slower pace of reading and the opportunity to once again question the text.

What’s next in my reading life? I picked up one of this month’s selections from the Book of the Month Club this afternoon. I’m just a few pages into the novel, but I am enjoying Elin Hilderbrand’s The Hotel Nantucket so far. I’ll let you know next week how it’s going.

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The Wanderer Has Returned

Hello, fellow Reader! I have missed sharing my reading adventures with you, but I needed to take a real break this summer. So I put a pause on EVERYTHING and enjoyed some time in meditation, personal reflection, and watching baseball. (Go Braves!) I didn’t completely stop reading this summer, but I did stop providing weekly updates on that portion of my life. Now that I have recovered from COVID — yeah, that wasn’t how I wanted to begin the fall semester — I’m finally ready to begin blogging again about my reading life. So here is a list of the books that I read this summer and a brief description of my thoughts on some of the works.

#12: Shuggie Bain (Douglas Stuart) – Not one of my favorite reads and not something I would recommend to anyone else.

#13: They Both Die in the End (Adam Silvers) – This was a recommendation from one of my students and turned out to be a very enjoyable YA read. The title says it all, but there is SO MUCH that happens before they both die. Check this quick read out for yourself.

#14: Pick Me (May Archer) – I enjoyed the other audio book by Archer that I listened to earlier this summer. Her attention to romance details are astounding. Not for the faint of heart though; read this as part of the LGBTQ+ challenge for my 2022 reading project. Things get steamy…..you’ve been warned.

#15: The Messy Lives of Book People (Phaedra Patrick) – Several months later I don’t remember a lot of the details about this book, but I remember that I liked it.

#16: Big Little Lies (Liane Moriarty) – Fun mass market read. Trigger warnings for domestic abuse, but wonderfully written.

#17: Miller’s Valley (Anna Quindlen) – This was probably my favorite read of the summer. Amazing story about a small forgotten town and the people who populate it. Worth taking a look at by any lover of literary fiction.

#18: The Lifestyle (Taylor Hahn) – This was NOT what I expected when I read the book jacket, but I laughed out loud throughout this cute romance. A marriage on the rocks decides to explore the lifestyle of swingers in order to fix their problems. Once again, not for the faint of heart, but not as graphic as Pick Me.

#19: The Wedding Dress Sewing Circle (Jennifer Ryan) – This novel from the Book of the Month Club looked like something I thought my mother would enjoy. Of course, I had to read it first. It was a beautiful story of friendship and survival set against the Nazi bombings of London and the English countryside in the days of World War II. Possibly a little longer than it needed to be, but an enjoyable novel nonetheless.

#20: A Single Man (Christopher Isherwood) – This short novella explores a single day in the life of a man after the death of his longtime partner. Considered one of the important early works of gay fiction, I was asked to read this alongside a young man I mentor who is struggling with his self-identity. There were some beautiful expressions of friendship, community, and the desire to be accepted expressed in this short work.

#21: The Viscount Who Loved Me (Julia Quinn) – I just finished the second of the Bridgerton novels early this morning and enjoyed every minute of it. This installment focused on Anthony and his developing relationship (and ultimate marriage) to Kate. I enjoyed the shift to seeing the struggles of romance from a male perspective. I think Quinn was in better form here than in her first novel of the series, The Duke and I. I’m looking forward to making a return visit to Bridgerton before the year is out.

There you have it…..that’s everything I have read since returning to the Geriatric Ward in early May. What’s on my reading table now? I felt a bit of nostalgia as I was selecting my latest read, so I’m heading back to high school momentarily and looking at A Separate Peace by John Knowles. I’ll let you know how it goes in a few days.

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#11: Hand-Picked (May Archer)

While driving across Texas to begin my summer break in Arkansas, I picked up another audio book to help with my reading challenge for 2022. Since I was a captive audience for a few hours, I decided to mark off one of the challenges that is not normally a part of my reading routine — a LBGTQ+ book.

Hand-Picked is the second book in the Sunday Brothers series (I didn’t know that when I picked it up!), but the book stands on its own quite well. Set in rural Vermont, the story centers on Webb Sunday, the owner of a local apple orchard and Luke, the new elementary teacher in town. The two men hate each other because of an unfortunate situation involving Webb’s young son who is a student in Luke’s class. When a property dispute further complicates matters, Webb prepares to give Luke a piece of his mind. Instead, the two men discover that their hatred for each other is the result of miscommunication and misunderstandings. Thus begins their friendship.

At least, they think they are “just” friends. Luke, a gay man, does not deny that he is attracted to Webb, but will certainly never pursue a relationship with someone who cannot love him back. After all, Webb is a straight man. Or is he? Webb faces his own attraction to Luke and admits to himself that he is bisexual. The romance novel continues as you would expect with many ups and downs for the new couple.

I was pleasantly surprised by Hand-Picked. I don’t know what I was really expecting, but I thoroughly enjoyed the book. Archer’s writing was witty and endearing. I found myself laughing out loud several times while listening to the story unfold. I must admit that I was quite uncomfortable when the romantic parts started up. Things were getting graphic. Then I realized that I was letting my prejudices impact my reading. The sexual encounters were no more explicit than what is typically found in a heterosexual romance. When I finally accepted that fact, I found that the scenes were actually tastefully written. As soon as I began to approach the episodes as expressions of love rather than something unacceptable to my palette, I found beauty in the story and the growing love between Luke and Webb.

Will I read more LBGTQ+ romances? I don’t think it will be a standard genre in my reading life. I am currently reading the first book in the Sunday Brother series because I found the characters captivating and delightfully rendered. Beyond that, I’m not making any decisions. I do know, however, that my eyes have been opened to some things by reading Hand-Picked and that I am a better reader…..and quite possible, a better person…..as a result of it.

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#10: The Duke and I (Julia Quinn)

I thoroughly enjoyed my recent foray into fluff reading. After watching the Netflix’s series Bridgerton based on Quinn’s novel, I was prepared for some raunchy scenes that were going to make me blush. All in all, Quinn’s novel was romantic and sexy, but it wasn’t as graphic as I feared. I found it a pretty good mix of naughty and nice.

If you’ve been living under a rock and have no idea about the plot of this series of books, I suppose some introduction is appropriate. Set in Regency England, the series follows the love lives of the 7 children of the Bridgerton family. In this first volume, our focus is on the oldest daughter, Daphne. Daphne is anxious to be married and have a family. However, she cannot find a suitor who captures her eye and heart. Enter Simon, the dashing Duke of Hastings.

Simon appears to be the perfect match for Daphne. Handsome, social standing, and wealthy. However, because of his childhood experiences, Simon does not intend to wed or bear children. It should come as no surprise when Simon and Daphne enter into an agreement to pretend to be madly in love so they both get what they want during the social courting season. Simon is unapproachable by other young ladies while Daphne is now the center of attention of all of the eligible bachelors! Nothing can go wrong with this plan, right?

Read the book. Watch the outstanding ensemble piece on Netflix — just have whatever you need to cool you down when you do! — and enjoy this charming story of love and intrigue. You’ll be glad you did.

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#9: Mercy Street (Jennifer Haigh)

My reading slump continues. However, I did manage to read Mercy Street over the course of the last three weeks. I had high expectations for the novel. It was well-written. It was an extremely interesting topic. I am assuming that my failure to connect with the book has more to do with my current mood than the quality of the book. As always, this review is intended to be nothing more than a dialogue about my own experience with the book at this particular moment in time.

Mercy Street is set in Boston and focuses on the daily operation of an abortion clinic and the women who work there. These women do not have all of the answers to life’s pressing issues. They face struggles and uncertainty. Some are even facing their own unwanted pregnancy.

To make matters worse, the staff learns that pictures are being snapped of patients as they enter the facility. When the staff discovers the photographs included on the “Hall of Shame” online, they are certain that their patients and all who work there are in extreme danger.

This was definitely an engaging, exciting read. My problem arose from the numerous storylines that ran parallel to each other. I connected with the women in the clinic. I found the drug dealer and the End Times vigilante to be flat, two-dimensional characters. It wasn’t that I didn’t identify with them. They simply didn’t seem real in my imagination.

I’ve placed Mercy Street in a prominent place so I will see it again this summer. Perhaps I’ll pick it up again and give it another chance. For right now, I have to admit that I was let down by my reading experience.

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#8: Ready for Anything (David Allen)

On a recent roadtrip from Arkansas to west Texas, I listened to David Allen’s follow up to Getting Things Done. I’m always a sucker for books on time management and figuring out to accomplish more with our limited time while still keeping work and personal life in balance.

Ready for Anything: 52 Productivity Principles for Work and Life began as a search for information for a piano pedagogy course that I’m currently teaching. I was searching for recommendations about managing long-term tasks and planning for their successful execution. One quote from Allen’s book grabbed my attention and my heart, becoming the basis of much of the work we are doing in my class: “A map is a futile tool until we know where we are.”

For anyone looking for help with time management and productivity, I highly recommend Getting Things Done (which I’m actually re-reading at the moment). Ready for Anything builds upon some of the concepts presented in the earlier book, but as a stand-alone work lacks the depth and impact of Allen’s previous book. Do yourself a favor and go for the real “meat and potatoes” book on the subject instead.

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#7: First Comes Love (Emily Giffin)

I am finally beginning to get over the cold that has rocked my world in the late winter/early spring weeks. It effected everything….including my reading life. I began reading Emily Giffin’s novel on February 5 to fulfill the reading challenge of a book with a bird on the cover. Sadly, it took over a month to push through not feeling well, business travel, and “life” to finish the book. I was definitely happy to see this one come to a close.

First Comes Love appeared to be a book that I would typically connect with. It is the story of two sisters who have become estranged as a result of the tragic death of their beloved brother. Josie is a single first-grade teacher who longs to have a child and begins investigating non-traditional options that will result in her pregnancy. Meredith, on the other hand, appears to have the perfect life. A great career, a loving husband, and a beautiful child. Meredith is not happy though. She always wonders if there is something more. Meredith longs for the freedom of Josie’s life; Josie wishes she could have a family like Meredith without feeling as though she was settling for second best.

The novel is filled with humor, love, and family drama. This is normally a perfect formula for me. Even now as I reflect on the reading, I find myself thinking that I should have devoured this book. The reality is that the book was a struggle for me. I don’t think First Comes Love is a bad book; I simply think it was the wrong book for me at this time. Perhaps I will return to it again in the future to give Giffin’s writing another chance.

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#6: The Martian (Andy Weir)

February’s first reading challenge asked for a book of speculative fiction. I must admit that the term was not familiar to me, so I turned to a trusted source: Google. That’s where I ran across this definition from Wikipedia. “Speculative fiction is a broad category of fiction encompassing genres with elements that do not exist in reality, recorded history, nature, or the present universe.” Okay…..so something somewhat far flung was in order. Since I was moving into a genre that is well off the beaten path for me, I decided to pick up a copy of The Martian and give it a go. I managed to finish the work and enjoy the adventure along the way.

In case you are not familiar with the basic premise, The Martian tells the story of Mark, an astronaut who finds himself left behind after a Mars mission is aborted and he is presumed dead. Through skill, good luck, and sheer determination, Mark manages to be reunited with his crew despite attempts by the Red Planet to kill him.

Normally, I am not a fan of this type of writing. I thought this was going to be the case for the first few days of reading as well. I struggled through terminology and getting a sense of the challenges being alone on Mars would present to an astronaut. Once contact was re-established with NASA in its crudest form, I found myself drawn into the story and rooting for Mark’s survival. I suppose that exploring the impact of a failed mission on everyone involved — Mark, his crew mates, administrators at NASA, as well as the rest of mankind who watched events unfolding helplessly — made the story much more enjoyable. The fast pace of the novel also helped keep me moving and rapidly propelled me to a satisfying conclusion. If this is what speculative fiction is really all about, I’m on board. I don’t think I’ll turn to it very often, but now that I have had a good experience, I won’t be as fearful to make a return visit to the form.

What’s next in my reading challenge? This one was fun…..I’m to read a book with a bird on the cover! I selected First Comes Love by Emily Giffin on my last visit to the bookstore. I just started reading the novel this afternoon, so I don’t have too much to share yet, but I can tell you that I am already invested in the story and interested to see where these events are going to take me. Now we just have to see how attending a state music conference impacts my reading life this week. I’ll be in touch again next Saturday!

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#5: Going There (Katie Couric)

I began listening to Katie Couric’s latest memoir while driving back to West Texas after spending the holidays with my parents in Arkansas. At 15 hours, 27 minutes, Going There was more than enough material to get me back to Texas and provide listening for several more hours during the month.

I have long been a fan of Couric’s work, especially on The Today Show. It was enjoyable to hear stories of her early career peppered with meeting her beloved Jay, the births of their girls, and the grief that came from Jay’s battle with colon cancer. I’ll admit that I was also intrigued to hear about the embattled times at CBS News – specifically The CBS Evening News and 60 Minutes — as well as her perspective on the ultimate downfall of Matt Lauer. I was not disappointed.

I did feel that the memoir was just a bit too long. I appreciated all of the stories and enjoyed hearing Katie’s voice again. However, I wonder if she would have been better served by publishing two separate works. As the reader approaches chapter 75, I found myself wondering if this was just an attempt to be back in the spotlight again. Really? Is it appropriate to talk about oneself for this long? (For the record, the memoir continued for over 20 more chapters!)

Was the memoir entertaining? Yes, most certainly. However, I also found myself just ready to reach the end of a personal saga much sooner than Couric decided to bring to the work to a fitting and appropriate conclusion. I think the audio book was quite good, but I do recommend that the reader give themself permission from the beginning to turn the story off when they have reached the point of satiation. There can always be too much of a good thing.

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#4: Where the Crawdads Sing (Delia Owens)

Let’s start with a warning. I have been very slothful about blogging my reviews of books recently. I suppose I have enjoyed reading a bit more than writing about my thoughts. On this chilly Saturday afternoon, it seems like the perfect time to play a little catch up. I apologize to those of you who have subscribed to this blog for the three posts you will (hopefully) receive in rather rapid succession.

On January 29, I finished my final reading challenge book for the month of January. Where the Crawdads Sing represented a book that is the basis for a 2022 movie release. The film by Sony Pictures is currently scheduled to be released on July 22, 2022.

I had high hopes for this novel. Everyone had been raving about what an amazing story it was. By the time I finished it, I simply said “ehhh.” It wasn’t horrible; I just found some of the plot points confusing. Kya was a black girl? I didn’t grab that fact until well into the novel. Does it matter to the plot? Not really. I think the bigger issue was the abject poverty she faced, not the color of her skin. I was rather offended with her race became such an issue of contention in the novel. Why had this not been a theme throughout if it was going to be so important? I also found the time shifts abrupt and unseemly. I understand that Owens was using a familiar literary device. I just don’t think it was effective. Rather than building suspense and unraveling the mystery gradually, the constant shifts of scenes and settings only made me seasick.

I’m not going to rule out reading other works by Owens. I’m hearing from others who were also let down by Crawdads that they really enjoyed reading some of her other works. I’m just happy to know that I am not alone when I give this work a disappointed thumbs down.

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